on my sugar…

There is that man in every woman’s life. The one that teaches her to love. He loves her so much, so passionately, 1 Corinthians 13 makes so much sense.  He wakes up every day and all he can think about is how to make her happy. His intentions are pure. You can feel the love. There are no games, no strategies, just a man who simply loves a woman. And that love is so perfect in its innocence. To him, you are the world and everything else doesn’t matter. He will do everything in his power to make you happy. Because at the end of the day, your happiness is all that really ever counts! He is that guy who is always looking out for you and even after you tell him, you guys can’t date, he stays in your life because he loves you. He hates having to drop you off at home in the evenings after hours and hours of chatting about everything and nothing. He makes you feel special! In a gathering he makes you feel like all the other women in the room don’t exist!

Every woman has one of those.

Most of us didn’t feel the same way about the guy so we had to turn him away but I believe these guys are in our lives for a reason. They teach us to love. They teach us how good love is supposed to feel. They teach us that love is selfless and seeks no fault. Love, true love is uncomplicated. It has no baggage. Only the present and the future.

Every woman has one of these guys in her life. I have one of these guys in my life. And I just want to appreciate him and say thank you. Thank you for teaching me that there is hope, that a man can truly love a woman. Thank you for showing me how to love!

And to the men that we do eventually marry, thank these men because they taught us how to love you the way you need to be loved!

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6 thoughts on “on my sugar…

  1. awwww! i think i know who ur sugar is. And the truth is these men make you a better person for the next man! i also wanna thank my sugar for making me the sweetest thing ❤

    • Freedom Trapped, wouldnt it be so sad if she was experiencing this wonderful love in her imagination. he exists but there maybe a number of conflicting personality traits or ideologies that dont ruin a friendship but would have no place in a relationship.

    • hahahaha He exists! He is very real! But he is just not the man for me… While we have fun and all, there are certain things that I cannot compromise on for me they are big ticket items so that is why we won’t get married. He is the perfect man… for someone else… just not me…

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